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Missy T P's avatar

Wow what an insightful article and literally everything you wrote about makes sense!! I am still so horrified and worried about what the next 4 years will bring for our country but I have to admit that as a 56 year old woman in an interracial B/W Lesbian marriage and we are both Federal Government employees I am just so incredibly tired of seeing all of the hate and bigotry in this country. I never thought I would say this and feel a bit embarrassed but if my wife and I could pick up right now and leave this country and never come back we would be gone in a heartbeat. We are just tired of having a target on our backs again being in a Red state Indiana and just want to live somewhere where we don’t have to worry about people that want to unalive us just for the fact we are a Black/White Lesbian couple. At this stage in my life with only 2 years until a Federal Pension I want the rest of my time on this earth living in peace and enjoying my retirement years without having to be fearful. I just feel so sad still.

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Ahmed Baba's avatar

Thanks for reading Missy and sharing some of your story! The combo of being in a lesbian marriage while also being a federal worker during the Trump admin is really tough. Your frustration with the bigotry in this country is justified - this election felt like a slap in the face to those of us repulsed by what Trump represents. I don’t blame you for wanting to leave, but luckily you only have two more years until that pension hits then you can relax - almost there. I hope you find pockets of joy this holiday season and reasons to hope. Things will get better, they always do. Sending love to you and your wife 🙏🏾

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Missy T P's avatar

Thank you so much!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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